add Observer
Register a MailboxObserver to receive notifications on every delivery and consumption.
Used by AgentPerformance and other stats collectors, and by cross-view integration code (e.g. a station adapter that owns a mailbox and completes a service when a reply arrives). Observers are normally attached at setup time; attaching at runtime is allowed but only sees traffic delivered after the attach. Mirrors the public Statechart.addObserver.